M3 System Making Up Made Easy Review – My Honest Opinion

Posted by on February 25, 2011 No comments

Hi, Melanie here,

You’re now reading my uncensored review of what I really thought about The M3 System Making Up Made Easy. Please note that this is a review.  If you want to visit the M3 System Making Up Made Easy website then click here.

Why am I writing this? Well, personally, I like to hear from someone unbiased.  I also think quality products on mending broken relationships are few and far between.  I’ve been there myself and I know that a lot of you out there are looking for GENUINE help and advice that will help you get your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back – not mess you around.  So I’m passing on my honest opinion, with good and bad points about the M3 System.

So what exactly is the M3 System Making Up Made Easy?

Click here to visit Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy website

It is a very accessible program that will take you step by step through how to get your ex back and wanting you again. (And by accessible I mean really so!  It comes in every format you could imagine: An E book; plenty of relevant videos (with transcripts); PDF files you can print out; audio MP3s to listen to.)

The quality is also exceptional.  The main ebook is a pleasure to read.  The videos and audios are delivered in a comfortable, friendly and approachable style where I felt I was being coached personally.

Michael Griswold is a highly experienced relationship expert who has helped thousands of couples and that really comes through in the advice he gives.  The content is far more detailed than I expected when compared to others in the marketplace.  He takes you through 3 modules  – Mindset, Method and Moving Forward.

In simple terms, the MINDSET parts are about building your confidence; taking control of the situation back; your body language and changing the way you communicate with your ex.  The METHOD sections look at the power balance; break up hurdles and how to avoid them and the art of re-attraction.  MOVING FORWARD gives practical advice on handling the actual communications with your ex; the ‘first date’ and what the future holds.  That’s a really brief description and you’ll find that each section covers a thorough range of insights and skills you’ll need to get your ex back.

Making Up Made Easy doesn’t fall into the trap that many of these ‘get your ex back’ products do of trying to get you to change your ex’s mind.  (Believe me, that doesn’t work – I’ve tried it!).  Michael Griswold’s approach is about you becoming and acting more confident, and therefore changing your ex’s mood through your altered behaviour.

This allows your ex to start to see you differently and remember who you were when they really wanted you.  It’s a simple process which you will be hand-held throughout (the videos are particularly useful here).

Click here to visit Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy website

The section on ‘How to deal with seeing my ex with someone else’ is a good example of how Michael Griswold doesn’t shy away from tackling all the possible ‘but what if…?’ stumbling blocks.  He teaches you an attitude of mind and how to deal positively with bumping into your ex with their new partner (even if you don’t feel it inside!) resulting in a big shift in how your ex views you.

These are some of his key tips from the ‘How to deal with seeing my ex with someone else’ section.

  • Don’t behave negatively – no freaking out; no trying to persuade them that you should be the one with them.
  • Do go up to them when you bump into the new pair and greet them politely.  Introduce yourself to the new partner; make your excuses and leave.
  • Don’t call up your ex and discuss it with them.  If you are on the phone to them and they tell you about they are seeing someone, tell them you are glad they are doing well and change the subject.

Very few people manage to behave like this and don’t worry – you can freak out later, when you’ve switched the phone off or gone out of sight.  But for that moment, show your ex that you are calm and cool (and therefore interesting and attractive) now you are on your own.

Doubts about the product

Anyone who wants a guarantee that Making Up Made Easy will definitely get your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back won’t find it here.  What it does promise, however, is that you will be in a better space at the end of the process so getting back together is much more likely to happen.

For some people, maybe the parts on meditation and visualising confidence building may seem a little too touchy feely.  It works for me, but I can see that some of you might choose not to use that bit of the product.

Also, this is definitely not a product for anyone who thinks that their ex was completely to blame for the break-up.  M3 System Making Up Made Easy will make you look at yourself and change your behaviour to become that confident, interesting and independent person that your ex fell in love with. In short, to win back the love.

My personal recommendation

This product will definitely deliver the results for you if you are committed to the process.  There are two main reasons why I highly recommend it.  First, it gives you the effective tools and strategies in a very accessible way for you to use to have the best possible chance to get your ex back.  And secondly, your personal confidence will grow and develop as a result of following the system.  Whatever happens, you will be in a much better place than where you started.

Click here to read more about Michael Griswold’s M3 System Making Up Made Easy on his official website

Hope my web page has helped you.

Melanie

What Can I Do When My Ex Is Angry And Upset?

Posted by on February 24, 2011 No comments

(Please note: This is my bite-size, easy-to-digest version of part of the Mindset section of Making Up Made Easy. If you want it in full, you’re better off going straight to Michael Griswold’s own site for the M3 System Making Up Made Easy but for now, I thought I’d give you a flavour of his methods.)

I always like an analogy. I think it is a really good learning tool. If I can’t get my head around something, then thinking of the equivalent in a different setting can really help. I think Michael Griswold is particularly good at explaining what he needs you to really properly understand by this method.

His analogy for the best way to persuade them to see things your way and get your ex back is comparing in your mind, their emotional barrage (and I’m talking about all the anger and upset they may be firing at you) to a toddler having a tantrum. Just because we’re grown ups, we’re still having tantrums – they just look different and right now, your ex may well be throwing some at you.

How do you stop a toddler having a tantrum? Persuading them? Giving them lots of attention? No – wrong answer. The best way to stop that tsunami of emotion is to ignore them. Ignore them and they will exhaust themselves and stop, wondering why they are not getting any attention.

So how does this relate to getting your ex back? Well – if you allow them to express all the rage and frustration they need to get out and don’t interrupt the process with promises to change and pleas to have another chance, then just like the tantrum throwing toddler, they will stop eventually and look up and wonder why you aren’t reacting how they are expecting you to. And getting your ex to wonder about you, is a FIRST STEP in the right direction.

It’s called detaching. You don’t actually ignore (unless you are in the middle of the 3 week cooling off period that Making Up Made Easy will teach you about). You detach. That means that you stop calculating how many texts they sent/responded to. Stop going over every minutiae of every communication you have had. Let go of thinking that every contact with your ex matters.

The M3 System Making Up Made Easy teaches you perspective and patience as a tool to allow your ex to exhaust themselves of those extreme emotions and wake up realising that they want to know what’s going on with you.

What happens after the break up is the number one influence on whether or not you’ll get your ex back. You need to behave differently, if you want something different to happen.

Trading Your Sadness for Confidence

Posted by on February 21, 2011 No comments

One of the main aspects of the M3 System Making Up Made Easy that I particularly like is how Michael Griswold takes you through the steps you need to regain your confidence. In a way, he is helping you find again the person your ex fell in love with in the first place. They didn’t fall for a sad, angry, needy person. They fell for a confident, interesting and independent person. To get your ex back you really have to recapture that person in you, or at least look like you are, even if all seems hopeless inside.

The steps to win back the love you had are pretty simple and require your restraint and determination more than anything. Even if you are just sitting on your couch feeling utterly miserable every day, the Making Up Made Easy will give you steps that will allow you to pass on a more confident message to your ex. Getting your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back is really a case of ‘behaving your way to success’ – that is, if you behave confidently for long enough, you will begin to genuinely feel confident – it’s a tried and tested method

Follow the M3 System and you will be behaving confidently and feeling in control even if the reality at that moment feels far more shaky than that. Follow the general advice and actions on developing confidence at the same time and the results will speak for themselves – ultimately making you far more attractive in the eyes of your ex and far more likely to make your ex love you again. It becomes a virtuous circle (as oppose to a vicious circle!). You become interesting again to your ex because you are displaying confidence and independence. Their interest in return will make you feel confident and independent…get it! Back to who they fell in love with in the first place, only a little older and wiser!

Can couples get back together? I think that following the M3 System Making Up Made Easy will give you a far better chance. Should you get back together? Well that’s another matter…Only you know that! But meanwhile, if you have followed the System you’ll be in a far better space, whatever happens.

Attraction to Rejection Inspired by Michael Griswold

Posted by on February 18, 2011 No comments

My goal in creating the M3 System Making Up Made Easy Review was really inspired by reading Michael Griswold’s Book ‘Making Up Made Easy’ and watching the detailed M3 System videos.  When we are in the FULL FLUSH of a blossoming relationship we see our world through very rewarding and enhancing spectacles.  All our actions and words are are motivated by pleasure.  Both in pleasing the person you are with as well as pleasing yourself.

It always seems EASY when there is mutual attraction.  Our actions and words come easily and naturally.  And even if we have some hesitancy and nervousness it seems to add to the charm and the attraction.  That is because we care about what we say and do with our new found love.  The idea at this stage of losing that love or think that this could break up is far from your mind.  Early on in the relationship you are both busy creating those special memories.  Creating your favourite places, music, food and activities.  It is all about SHARING experiences.

Over time, and there is no prescribed length of time for this, our life together changes.  It is sometimes very hard to identify when the change happened, it is incremental.  The real SHOCKER is when you suddenly are dumped.  You have become ‘the ex’,  the ex boyfriend or the ex girlfriend.  You can’t believe this has happened to you.  You have heard it happening to others you know.  You have possibly supported a friend through their break up, but you always thought your relationship was different.

After that initial shock you can become absorbed with wanting to get back together.  This is where your desire to get your ex back can become all consuming.  During this rejection period you will run through a whole range of emotions ranging from grief, loss, despair to anger, frustration, irritation to guilt, blame and even revenge.  These can be very destructive for you , the relationship you want to rebuild and of course your goal to win back the love you have lost.

What I particularly liked about Making Up Made Easy was the understanding it showed to those RAW EMOTIONS we feel and the practical steps TOWARDS RECOVERY it genuinely offered.  I created this unbiased Review to help you make the right decision for yourself.  I think there are some excellent valuable parts to the M3 System but I also want to share with you areas of concern that you might not have thought of to help you in your decision.